James Gandolfini, via HBO

James Gandolfini, via HBO

SAYING FAREWELL to their friend, larger than life actor James Ganfolfini, he was described as always having time for people, as well as a man with “inner demons.” I’ve never known a creative force worthy of his or her dynamism who didn’t have them, myself included.

What would a big Hollywood funeral be without controversy? ..and who better to provide it than the permanent press punching bag, Alec Baldwin, who is catching hell for his wife getting caught tweeting recipes during the funeral. The reports baited Baldwin into responding, never a good idea in these situations

That’s the noise around the very sad loss of an actor who was obviously beloved. His complicated struggles with life revealed through the tragic way he died, which included struggling with alcohol and those “inner demons” that seem to have gotten the last word.

From David Chase, the creator of “The Sopranos,” and a great friend of James Gandolfini…

I was asked to talk about the work part, and so I’ll talk about the show we used to do and how we used to do it. You know, everybody knows that we always ended an episode with a song. That was kind of like me and the writers letting the real geniuses do the heavy lifting: Bruce, and Mick and Keith, and Howling Wolf and a bunch of them. So if this was an episode, it would end with a song. And the song, as far as I’m concerned, would be Joan Osborne’s “(What If God Was) One Of Us?” And the set-up for this “” we never did this, and you never even heard this “” is that Tony was somehow lost in the Meadowlands. He didn’t have his car, and his wallet, and his car keys. I forget how he got there “” there was some kind of a scrape “” but he had nothing in his pocket but some change. He didn’t have his guys with him, he didn’t have his gun. And so mob boss Tony Soprano had to be one of the working stiffs, getting in line for the bus. And the way we were going to film it, he was going to get on the bus, and the lyric that would’ve one over that would’ve been “” and we don’t have Joan Osborne to sing it:

If God had a face
what would it look like?
And would you want to see
if seeing meant you had to believe?
And yeah, yeah, God is great.
Yeah, yeah, God is good.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So Tony would get on the bus, and he would sit there, and the bus would pull out in this big billow of diesel smoke. And then the key lyric would come on, and it was

What if God was one of us?
Just a slob like one of us?
Just a stranger on the bus
trying to make his way home.

And that would’ve been playing over your face, Jimmy. But then “” and this is where it gets kind of strange “” now I would have to update, because of the events of the last week. And I would let the song play further, and the lyrics would be

Just trying to make his way home
Like a holy rollin’ stone
Back up to Heaven all alone
Nobody callin’ on the phone
“˜Cept for the Pope, maybe, in Rome.


What we don’t confront and make piece with usually kills us.

h/t Gawker